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Stop Playing This Dangerous Game, Sis
There’s something we need to talk about—woman to woman. It’s about the games we sometimes play with people’s lives. And I’m here to tell you: stop. If you don’t love that man, stay off. Stop pretending. Stop lying. Stop acting like you’re building a future with someone when your heart is elsewhere. This is not a harmless game. It’s a dangerous one, and the ending is never pretty.
You can’t marry him and still be playing these childish, selfish games on the side. You can’t tie someone’s son down and give him a life that’s built on lies. Some of you are giving other people’s children to a man who thinks he’s raising his own. You're doing "sot things"—secret, out-of-order things—and think you're smart enough to hide it forever. But secrets rot. They always come out. And when they do, the damage is beyond repair.
If you know deep in your soul that you don’t love him, don’t stay. Don’t string him along. Don’t take vows you don’t mean. Don’t build a house on sand and then cry when the storm comes. You don’t get to play with someone’s heart, someone’s future, and walk away thinking life will treat you kindly in return.
And sis, the worst part? The woman who plays this game always loses in the end. Always. You lose peace, you lose dignity, and sometimes you lose everything.
So, if this is you—stop now. Own your truth, face your choices, and walk away if you need to. But don’t stay in a man’s life just to keep up appearances or because you’re afraid of starting over.
You deserve real love—and so does he.